Any advice on how to quit video poker and slots?

Hey DL,

Haven't touched those evil things since Sunday's massacre.  Don't plan on it.  I have been betting sports, walked in, got my ticket, flipped off the camera and the guys upstairs, and walked out.  Got some fresh air.  Had this sick feeling of crying.  Thought to myself, what the fuck? 3 thousand dollars I handed over to some asshole in a casino.  NEVER again. Tell you the truth, I am thinking of quitting sports too.  It's just a gateway to other forms of gambling.  I'm good at it, but it takes A LOT of time.  I went on a date with this girl last night, it felt really good.  I spent 40 bucks on her, didn't hesitate.  It's funny.  I would spend hundreds on machines, not thinking twice, and be cheap with dates, clothes, etc.  Now, I don't care.  I hope she enjoyed the dinner and coffee.  I wouldn't care if it was 300 dollars. 

I am sad.  Not depressed.  Just huge sadness.  Thousands, thousands of dollars, time, gone to those casinos.  Sitting infront of those machines.  I could have been married, had kids, traveled the world.  Those machines took it all.  My fault, but I'm healing.  I really appreciate you guys.  Some of you live in other parts of the country where you don't have these machines, but for us over here, the devil is here.  Alive and well.  You would be amazed at how addicting they are.  I never want to touch them again.  They are everywhere.  Just went to the grocery store, and there they were.  Just can't wait to leave Nevada.  Hate it here.  I have 13 months to go. 

I probably have nothing that will help, but here is the reality: you lost some money on slots and video poker and it bothers you. 

What do you think is going to happen if you try to get that back from those machines?

 Eat crow. Learn from the experience. Stoicism is something that perhaps you should look into. 

When I get highly irritated by something, or downright angry, I tell myself, “It’s in the past. I might as well have been 20 years ago.”

Because initially you’re always the angriest immediately after the event, but with time, that anger fades. Eventually, it disappears completely. So just skip all that. Distract yourself. Make the money back with sports (you said you do well with that).

Your mind can be your worst enemy if you allow it. Problem is, I don’t believe in free will. You’re either gonna come out of this, or you won’t. 

Look into stoicism. Your mind is doing this to you. Can you beat it? I don’t know. Some do, and some don’t. 

I have my addictions too. Will I beat them? Do I even want to? I’m turning 57 in a few weeks and I’m battling a serious illness, so I don’t have any fucks left honestly. 

Stay the fuck away from those machines and focus on other things. Listen to YouTube videos on stoicism. I apologize, but that’s all I got. 

I’ve gotten better with some of my issues. I used to get upset while playing blackjack online, but I now realize that that doesn’t help. Who am I getting upset at? The computer? My phone? I’m fucking playing online blackjack! It’s going to be stressful IF I LET IT STRESS ME OUT.

Now I simply tell myself that I don’t care if I make money or not because I know I will in the long run. I base that off of what I’ve accomplished in the past. I’m going to lose money sometimes. That’s inevitable. But it literally doesn’t matter because I’ll make money later. So essentially, sometimes, I HAVE TO take a loss. If I keep playing, I know what’s going to happen.

I’ve been at this for at least 9 years now and I know that the only thing that gets me in trouble is when I get proud and think “I will not let you beat me”. Who am I talking to? It’s absurd. Now I just take a small loss and quit. I know I’ll get it back later.

Emotions like pride, anger, and frustration are what keep people in a loop of losing. Lose the emotions. 

I wish you the best.

Peace!

I just now noticed that this is 14 years old ??

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Acknowledge the craving. For gambling to happen, you need to make the decision to gamble. If you have an urge: stop what you are doing and call someone, think about the consequences to your actions, tell yourself to stop thinking about gambling, and find something else to do immediately. Avoid isolation.

Acknowledge the craving. For gambling to happen, you need to make the decision to gamble. If you have an urge: stop what you are doing and call someone, think about the consequences to your actions, tell yourself to stop thinking about gambling, and find something else to do immediately. Avoid isolation.

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Hello

Thanks for being honest about this, acknowledging is the first step.

I would like to share my experience about gambling addict too. I even lost a considerable amount of money. After some months, I got my mind out of it, did a break and decided to follow a kind of therapy. Bet responsibly has been my motto, so set a budget, and STICK to it whatever happen. Sometimes you win other times you lose but bet what you can afford, super important. Practice responsible gambling, look for articles on it https://www.gamblingcommission.gov.uk/ in UK we have this. I have not stop betting, but I do it responsibly now and will share with you some nice websites.

Shut off computer and remove apps. 

Take a moment to reflect on what you do and think that leads to this behavior. Understand how you think what is actually your thoughts and those that interfere with your reasoning skills , stay focused on what you intend to do with this behavior, if it is entertaining and you like it too much deflect from the behavior it gets you into serious financial trouble and make you and the lives around you suffer. 

Just understand the fear resentment anger and hatred that is driving you to destroy your finicial security and be intelligent in making decisions to understand temperance , don't make it glitch or ketch phrase, understanding yourself and how you behave is necessary to make the correct decision.

A simple excersize with how you are reacting to marketing software. Go to the mall leave your cell phone and wallet ,purse in your car secured . And feel what is driving you to spend money how many times you feel you need to go to ATM. Or make a purchase or take something.... Feel the environment around you.

Set the plan I am going window shopping for my family's Christmas. I just looking now, and understand what is driving your mind to feel something inconsistent with your plan.... 

You understand what actually your thoughts your intentions and what is influenced you this way....

When you finally succumb to the false desires. Leave a sign to remind you just write window shopping out it on your seat, turn the key and drive home and analyze the experience when you get home your mind will clear. Write down how what you saw how you felt and what reactions did you observe....

#1. If you gamble you will eventually lose money. That applies to 99.8% of gamblers, IMO. Don't expect to be that 0.2%, maybe short term run, never long term.

#2. Treat it as entertainment. Do you like it better than a nice resturant, a show, etc? If not, go to the show and nice resturant instead. 

#3. Expect to SPEND your money and anything else is a bonus. 

Some misconceptions seen in some posts here; LIVE Keno at a casino has a large take. Your paying for all the employees and materials that go with it. VIDEO Keno often pays better percentage than sports betting. Video Poker too, pays better than sports betting. Unlike slots, you can know the payback for video poker and video keno by reading and knowing the paytable. But wait, sports betting is a game of skill you say. 

For me, it goes like this; Say I have $400 in disposable cash I want to gamble with. Could put it on game, maybe two. Then I watch the 60 minute game in four hours. Commercial after commercial and of course halftime. Maybe things go my way or maybe a ref calls some crap penalties that cost me my bet. Or maybe my teams starting QB goes down early. All this to win $363.64 @ -110 plus my $400 back.

Or I could go to the casino, play low denomination and make that same $400 last playing keno and video poker for those same four hours. Constant action, no commercials, no other humans deciding the outcome. For a dime hitting 7 outta 7 in keno pays $650. 40,979 to 1 odds though. It's hitting the 3,4,5,6's out of 7 that keeps the game going. Regular keno can get boring and there are gimmick keno games out there. Same with video poker. 

It all depends on your preference. My daughter and son-in-law get together and have video poker contests between us. Who gets the most 4 of a kinds. Great fun!

Again, it's all entertainment people! 

Orrrrrrr, do this! 

There are people on YouTube who video their slot play and post it. They have like 500 thousand to a million subcribers. They make thousands showing videos of them losing thousands!

Incredible! 

Could give a few names but that would maybe considered promoting them. Don't wanna do that. But they are out there. Hundred bucks a spin videos.  Crazy.

I struggled with video poker and slots too, felt like a loop I couldn’t break. Talking to Bluffing Monkeys (honestly the most genuine poker agents I’ve met) helped me step back and set limits. It gets easier once you’re not dealing with it alone.